LETS TALK gets conversation going, over and over again, through carefully selected and formulated conversation starters.
Great communication is paramount to a lifelong, thriving relationship, and helps maintain a sense of closeness, affinity and love for one another. Often, however, couples can feel that theyve run out of things to talk about, that they already know everything about each other and that all conceivable topics have already been covered.
Nothing could be further from the truth!
A little spark is usually all you need to ignite the conversation. New stories are rescued from oblivion, hidden aspects of both yourself and your partner are uncovered, creative ideas and solutions are crafted, and your feelings for one another will blossom.
The conversation starters in LETS TALK are divided into 8 categories:
ENOUGH ABOUT ME
Here, youll learn a lot about each other! Knowing your partner like the back of your hand helps a lot in everyday life. Expect many surprises here, though!
YOUR PAST
Here, both of you can tell about your respective lives before you met. Knowing each others background helps strengthen the foundation of the relationship.
DESCRIBE ME
This category gives you a lot of opportunities to praise your partner, and in some cases a chance to deal with little annoyances in a lighthearted way.
OUR RELATIONSHIP
In this category, its all about the joys and challenges of being a couple.
FAMILY & FINANCE
As a couple, you have a shared responsibility for a lot of different things: Children, finances, your home, etc. This category will help you discuss these issues.
IMAGINE...
Hypothetical questions and thought experiments. This is a really fun category that will turn your imagination into action, and make you laugh. Conversations in this category can often become quite philosophical as well.
OUR FUTURE
This category makes you look ahead, and encourages both you as a couple and each of you individually to fill your lives with a lot of excitement in the years to come. Theres also a lot of focus here on improving the relationship, as well as self improvement.
SEX & INTIMACY
This category contains the most intimate conversation topics. A conversation in this category can quickly become quite exciting and turn into action.
How to use LETS TALK:
Agree on a category in advance, or take turns selecting the category. A random question from the selected category will then be displayed. If youd like, you can also choose "Any category" in the menu. LETS TALK will then choose randomly across all categories.
Once you have a conversation going, you can press the "Mark as used" button below the question. It will then not reappear until all questions in that category have been used.
The idea is to use the random question youre presented with, whatever it is, but if for some reason you dont want to use it, you can get a new one by selecting the same category again. LETS TALK will remember that the question was shown and hold it back until all other questions in the same category have also been shown or used. If you dont think the question is appropriate for you at all, you can press "Mark as used" to prevent it from ever reappearing.
Each question should be asked and answered by both of you. That way, you both get the chance to talk AND listen.